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Where the Dating Advice is

November 7, 2014 / No Comments

Yes, my online home is kinda messy. I’m spring cleaning in November, promise. And here’s what I’m doing. I’m gathering all my best dating stories and putting them in one place. That place is Medium. It’s beautiful. You must visit. When you need a little [...]

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The Reason I Woke up at 6:30am the Day After Halloween

November 2, 2014 / No Comments

Part of this whole blogger gig involves waking up on a Saturday morning after a long Halloween night to attend an event. It was November 1st and, yeah, I was tired. But when you have a message to spread, these are things you have to [...]


The Answer to My Question was “No”

October 31, 2014 / No Comments

I wasn’t supposed to be this person. The kind of person who writes a book, follows her dreams, and does something great. I was an average student, an awful speller, and I didn’t necessary excel at anything. Other than talking in class. I was really [...]


DIY: How to Get Over Anxiety

October 15, 2014 / 1 Comment

I sat in my bead, with my head in my hands. My breath was at an unnatural pace as tears continued to pour out my eyes. At that moment, I felt as I had hit bottom. I did not know where to go, other than [...]