How to Make Dating Less Exhausting

You may know this about me already, but one of my favorite topics is our inner victim. Yep, I’m that kind of geek. Our inner victim is all about feeling disempowered. You know those moments in life when it feels like we have no other choice? That’s where the victim comes out to play. For many of us, victim mentality runs really deep — especially for women. And with good reason, right?

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How to Get Over Your Ex

Today’s Monday Message is not for everyone. Not everyone has an ex they need to get over. But most of us do have a friend who needs to get over their ex! So if you’re not in this category, please pass it along to someone in need. We’re talking about the ex today, because in order to enjoy the gifts of the present and the future, we have to stop living in the past.

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How to Stop Fighting with Your Partner

Do you ever feel like you’re having the same fight with your partner over and over again. It doesn’t matter if you’re fighting about who left the seat up or who forgot to buy who a birthday present, it all just feels like the same fight. And guess what: it is!

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Find a Partner Who Accepts You for You

From where you are today, I promise you could find a romantic partner. I have no doubt that you can find someone today. But of course, you’re not looking for just anyone. That’s why you’re still single! Because you’re looking for the right fit for you. I know it often feels like we’re waiting, but the truth is you’re choosing.


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Do This Before Using a Dating App

Today we’re talking dating apps. Wait, what? I know what you’re thinking, dating apps aren’t spiritual, Nikki. And my response. Um, all our experiences are spiritual! We just get caught up in our humanness.

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How to Cleanse Your Heart Chakra

Ah the heart chakra, my favorite chakra. Why? Because when we are operating from a place of love with a clear heart, everything in life runs more smoothly. Our relationships, our careers, our self esteem, the whole sha-bang. However, as humans and naturally sensitive beings, it is one of the easiest chakras to become blocked. You may need a cleanse if you are struggling with self love, feel hopeless in the dating department, or are afraid to let your creation out into the world.

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How To Stop Doubting Yourself

Today, I’m going to let you in on a little secret for when it comes to self-doubt. Ready for it? It never really goes away. I know it sucks, but doubting ourselves signifies that we are whole people with a conscience. So hooray for not being a sociopath!

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How to Get Your Partner to Take Care of Themselves

I constantly have clients coming to be complaining about their partners not being “evolved” enough. Or frustrated that their boyfriends and husbands are not taking care of their health. As I’m hearing these complaints, I, of course, sit politely and listen, although I know exactly what the problem is.

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