Episode 12: What Do You Have to Offer When Dating?

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Have you ever found yourself having the same relationship over and over again?

Somehow, you're always the healer in the relationship? Or the one who financially supports everything? Or you're with people who only want to hook up?

You probably think your manifesting skills are off, when really it's this one little thing that's off.

When dating, we subconsciously think about what we have to offer. Even if we are repeating, "I am enough," over and over again, we still tend to lead with a part of us — a part that we're usually proud of.

This is what I call "our energetic agreements" in relationships.

May you come into relationships saying "I'm really good at fixing. I will fix any problems you have or any that show up in our relationship."

May you are proud of your financial success and your ability to provide. You may say "I will pay for all things."

Or may be you've been told your whole life that you're really smart. Guess what you're going to rely on when texting? Yep, your smarts.

So, it's not that we're manifesting these kid of people, we're unconsciously setting the tone right at the beginning, and we may be setting a tone we really are trying to get away from!

In today's episode of The Final Swipe, I discuss this little thing we miss when dating, and I teach how you can switch it around so you can give yourself the best chance at creating the relationship into one you really want, rather than more of the same.

We talk about:

  1. The energetic agreements we make at the beginning of each relationship.

  2. How to attract the right partner.

  3. How to be yourself when dating.

Resources:

  1. My membership program: https://nikkinovo.com/membership